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    “It’s taken me many years of being overly competitive with those around me to discover that it’s impossible to be totally happy whilst competitive because it’s impossible to be competitive without being comparative.”

    Cole Schafer

      “It is a great happiness to have what you desire; but it is an even greater happiness not to want more than you already have.”

      Menedemus, via A Calendar of Wisdom (Page 156)

        “Who is a wise man?—He who studies all the time.

        Who is strong?—He who can limit himself.

        Who is rich?—He who is happy with what he has.”

        The Talmud, via A Calendar of Wisdom (Page 156)

          “People say that what we’re all seeking is a meaning for life. I don’t think that’s what we’re really seeking. I think that what we’re seeking is an experience of being alive, so that our life experiences on the purely physical plane will have resonances with our own innermost being and reality, so that we actually feel the rapture of being alive.”

          Joseph Campbell

            “The irony is that this ‘fake it till you make it’ tactic is the exact opposite of how truly successful people live. They live with authentic vulnerability because they know that the world always connects more with your grit than your shine. They might show up for the shine, but they will stay because of your grit.”

            Joshua Medcalf, Pound The Stone

              “There’s a phrase out there that says, ‘Sometimes you win. Sometimes you learn.’ I can’t stand that phrase. And the reason I can’t stand that phrase is because it implies two things. It implies that you can’t learn from winning. Like you win or you learn? No, you can learn a lot from winning. Success leaves clues. What it also implies, losing is some word that no one says of, ‘Oh, I didn’t lose. I learned.’ No, you lost. Own it. You lost, you got beat today, and that’s life you’re going to lose sometimes. And instead of flowering it up and saying, “No, no, I didn’t lose. I just ran out of time. I didn’t lose.” No, you lost.”

              Justin Su’a, via Farnam Street Blog

                “Remember this: weak character will neutralize all of the other possible good qualities a person might possess. For instance, people of high intelligence but weak character may come up with good ideas and even do a job well, but they will crumble under pressure, or they will not take too kindly to criticism, or they will think first and foremost of their own agenda, or their arrogance and annoying qualities will cause others around them to quit, harming the general environment. There are hidden costs to working with them or hiring them.”

                Robert Greene, The Daily Laws (Page 182)

                  “With every pilgrimage one encounters the temporality of life. To die along the road is destiny. Or so I told myself.”

                  Bashō, Narrow Road To The Interior (Page 14)

                    “Remember that your understanding of your inner self holds the meaning of your life, and it makes you free if you do not force it to serve your flesh. The human soul which is enlightened by understanding and freed from passions, and lit with the divine light, stands on a firm foundation.”

                    Leo Tolstoy, A Calendar of Wisdom (Page 153)

                      “You should behave in such a way that you can say to everybody, ‘Behave as I do.'”

                      Immanuel Kant, A Calendar of Wisdom (Page 152)

                        “A wise man was asked, ‘Is there a single word which you can follow throughout all your life?’ And the wise man answered, ‘There is such a word. This is shu.’ And the meaning of this word is, ‘If we do not want certain things to be done to us, we should not do such things to others.'”

                        Chinese Wisdom, A Calendar of Wisdom (Page 152)

                          “Do you think that anybody can damage your soul? Then why are you so embarrassed? I laugh at those who think they can damage me. They do not know who I am, they do not know what I think, they cannot even tough the things which are really mine and with which I live.”

                          Epictetus, A Calendar of Wisdom (Page 147)

                            “Only the truth which was acquired by your own thinking, through the efforts of your intellect, becomes a member of your own body, and only this truth really belongs to us.”

                            Arthur Schopenhauer, via A Calendar of Wisdom (Page 146)

                              “Only the one who attains perfect sincerity under heaven may discover one’s ‘true nature.'”

                              Confucius, via Narrow Road To The Interior (Page XXXVII)

                                “Abide by rules, then throw them out!—only then may you achieve true freedom.”

                                Bashō, Narrow Road To The Interior (Page XXIII)

                                  “Despite his ability to attract students, he seems to have spent much of his time in a state of perpetual despondency, loneliness everywhere crowding in on him. No doubt this state of mind was compounded by chronically poor health, but Bashō was also engaging true sabishi, a spiritual loneliness that served haikai culture in much the same way mu or ‘nothingness’ served Zen.”

                                  Sam Hamill, Narrow Road To The Interior (Page XXXI)

                                    “Life is the constant approach to death; therefore, life can be bliss only when death does not seem to be an evil.”

                                    Leo Tolstoy, A Calendar of Wisdom (Page 145)

                                      “His journey is a pilgrimage; it is a journey into the interior of the self as much as a travelogue, a vision quest that concludes in insight. But there is no conclusion. The journey itself is home. The means is the end, just as it is the beginning. Each step is the first step, each step the last.”

                                      Sam Hamill, Narrow Road To The Interior (Page XXIII)

                                        “Ignore the front that people display, the myth that surrounds them, and instead plumb their depths for signs of their character. This can be seen in the patterns they reveal from their past, the quality of their decisions, how they delegate authority and work with others, and countless other signs.”

                                        Robert Greene, The Daily Laws (Page 170)