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    “Someone power-hungry makes a new rule at your workplace.  It’s unnecessary.  It’s counterproductive.  It’s an irritant.  It removes some of the pleasure and meaning from your work.  But you tell yourself it’s all right.  It’s not worth complaining about.  Then it happens again.  You’ve already trained yourself to allow such things, by failing to react the first time.  You’re a little less courageous.  Your opponent, unopposed, is a little bit stronger.  The institution is a little bit more corrupt.  The process of bureaucratic stagnation and oppression is underway, and you’ve contributed, by pretending that it was OK.  Why not complain?  Why not take a stand?  If you do, other people, equally afraid to speak up, may come to your defense.  And if not—maybe it’s time for a revolution.  Maybe you should find a job somewhere else, where your soul is less in danger from corruption.” ~ Jordan Peterson, via 12 Rules for Life (Pages 214-215)

      “A naively formulated goal transmutes, with time, into the sinister form of the life-lie.  One forty-something client told me his vision, formulated by his younger self: ‘I see myself retired, sitting on a tropical beach, drinking margaritas in the sunshine.’ That’s not a plan.  That’s a travel poster.  After eight margaritas, you’re fit only to await the hangover.  After three weeks of margarita-filled days, if you have any sense, you’re bored stiff and self-disgusted.  In a year, or less, you’re pathetic.  It’s just not a sustainable approach to later life.” ~ Jordan Peterson, via 12 Rules for Life (Page 210)

        “Meaning is when everything there is comes together in an ecstatic dance of single purpose—the glorification of a reality so that no matter how good it has suddenly become, it can get better and better and better more and more deeply forever into the future.  Meaning happens when that dance has become so intense that all the horrors of the past, all the terrible struggle engaged in by all of life and all of humanity to that moment becomes a necessary and worthwhile part of the increasingly successful attempt to build something truly Mighty and Good.” ~ Jordan Peterson, via 12 Rules for Life (Page 201)

          “There are many problems that money does not solve, and others that it makes worse.  Rich people still divorce each other, and alienate themselves from their children, and suffer from existential angst, and develop cancer and dementia, and die alone and unloved.  Recovering addicts cursed with money blow it all in a frenzy of snorting and drunkenness.  And boredom weighs heavily on people who have nothing to do.” ~ Jordan Peterson, via 12 Rules for Life (Page 196)

            “The successful among us delay gratification.  The successful among us bargain with the future.  A great idea begins to emerge, taking ever-more-clearly-articulated form, in ever more-clearly-articulated stories: What’s the difference between the successful and the unsuccessful?  The successful sacrifice.” ~ Jordan Peterson, via 12 Rules for Life (Page 169)

              “Don’t reorganize the state until you have ordered your own experience.  Have some humility.  If you cannot bring peace to your household, how dare you try to rule a city?” ~ Jordan Peterson, via 12 Rules for Life (Page 158)

                “Clear rules make for secure children and calm, rational parents.  Clear principles of discipline and punishment balance mercy and justice so that social development and psychological maturity can be optimally promoted.  Clear rules and proper discipline help the child, and the family, and society, establish, maintain and expand the order that is all that protects us from chaos and the terrors of the underworld, where everything is uncertain, anxiety-provoking, hopeless and depressing.  There are no greater gifts that a committed and courageous parent can bestow.” ~ Jordan Peterson, via 12 Rules for Life (Page 144)

                  “Here are some suggestions [for rules for children].  Do not bite, kick or hit, except in self-defense.  Do not torture and bully other children, so you don’t end up in jail.  Eat in a civilized and thankful manner, so that people are happy to have you at their house, and pleased to feed you.  Learn to share, so other kids will play with you.  Pay attention when spoken to by adults, so they don’t hate you and might therefore deign to teach you something.  Go to sleep properly, and peaceably, so that your parents can have a private life and not resent your existence.  Take care of your belongings, because you need to learn how and because you’re lucky to have them.  Be good company when something fun is happening, so that you’re invited for the fun.  Act so that other people are happy you’re around, so that people will want you around.  A child who knows these rules will be welcome everywhere.” ~ Jordan Peterson, via 12 Rules for Life (Page 137)

                    “Parents who refuse to adopt the responsibility for disciplining their children think they can just opt out of the conflict necessary for proper child-rearing.  They avoid being the bad guy (in the short term).  But they do not at all rescue or protect their children from fear and pain.  Quite the contrary: the judgmental and uncaring broader social world will mete out conflict and punishment far greater than that which would have been delivered by an awake parent.  You can discipline your children, or you can turn that responsibility over to the harsh, uncaring judgmental world—and the motivation for the latter decision should never be confused with love.” ~ Jordan Peterson, via 12 Rules for Life (Page 134)