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Self Improvement Quotes

    “Every time you sit down to work, remind yourself: I am delaying gratification by doing this.  I am passing the marshmallow test.  I am earning what my ambition burns for.  I am making an investment in myself instead of in my ego.  Give yourself a little credit for this choice, but not so much, because you’ve got to get back to the task at hand: practicing, working, improving.” ~ Ryan Holiday, Ego is the Enemy

      “The art of taking feedback is such a crucial skill in life, particularly harsh and critical feedback.  We not only need to take this harsh feedback, but actively solicit it, labor to seek out the negative precisely when our friends and family and brain are telling us that we’re doing great.  The ego avoids such feedback at all costs, however.  Who wants to remand themselves to remedial training?  It thinks it already knows how and who we are – that is, it thinks we are spectacular, perfect, genius, truly innovative.  It dislikes reality and prefers its own assessment.” ~ Ryan Holiday, Ego is the Enemy

        “We don’t like thinking that someone is better than us.  Or that we have a lot left to learn.  We want to be done.  We want to be ready.  We’re busy and overburdened.  For this reason, updating your appraisal of your talents in a downward direction is one of the most difficult things to do in life – but it is almost always a component of mastery.  The pretense of knowledge is our most dangerous vice, because it prevents us from getting any better.  Studious self-assessment is the antidote.” ~ Ryan Holiday, Ego is the Enemy

          “Don’t fake it till you make it.  Fake it till you become it.” ~ Amy Cuddy, via Talk Like TED

            “In what period since you were a teenager did you have the most personal growth and change?  If you wanted to have another such period, what could you do to bring it about or otherwise shake up your life?” ~ Gregory Stock, The Book of Questions

            Living With A Seal [Book]

              Living With A SEAL by Jesse Itzler

              By: Jesse Itzler

              From this Book:  6 Quotes

              Book Overview:  When Jesse felt himself drifting on autopilot, he hired a rather unconventional trainer to live with him for a month – an accomplished Navy SEAL widely considered to be “the toughest man on the planet”!  Jesse is about as easy-going as you can get.  SEAL is…not.  Jesse and SEAL’s escapades soon produce a great friendship, and by the time SEAL leaves, Jesse is in the best shape of his life, but he gains much more than muscle. At turns hilarious and inspiring, Living with a SEAL ultimately shows you the benefits of stepping out of your comfort zone.

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              Post(s) Inspired by this Book:

              1. 3 David Goggins Quotes from Living With a SEAL—And How To Add More Suck To Your Life.

              The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari [Book]

                The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin Sharma

                By: Robin S. Sharma

                From this Book:  45 Quotes

                Book Overview: The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari: A Fable About Fulfilling Your Dreams and Reaching Your Destiny by motivational speaker and author Robin Sharma is an inspiring tale that provides a step-by-step approach to living with greater courage, balance, abundance and joy. The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari tells the extraordinary story of Julian Mantle, a lawyer forced to confront the spiritual crisis of his out-of-balance life, and the subsequent wisdom that he gains on a life-changing odyssey that enables him to create a life of passion, purpose and peace.

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                Great on Kindle. Great Experience. Great Value. The Kindle edition of this book comes highly recommended on Amazon.

                Post(s) Inspired by this Book:

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                  “Small victories lead to large victories.  You must build on the small to achieve the great.  By following through on a resolution as simple as getting up earlier every day, you will feel the pleasure and gratification that achievement brings.  You have set a goal and you have realized it.  This feels good.  The trick is to keep setting the mark higher and raising your standards continuously.  This will then release that magical quality of momentum that will motivate you to keep exploring your infinite potential.” ~ Robin S. Sharma, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari

                    “Truly enlightened people never seek to be like others.  Rather, they seek to be superior to their former selves.  Don’t race against others.  Race against yourself.”

                    Robin S. Sharma, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari

                      “There is nothing noble about being superior to some other person.  True nobility lies in being superior to your former self.” ~ Robin S. Sharma, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari

                        “Saying that you don’t have time to improve your thoughts and your life is like saying you don’t have time to stop for gas because you are too busy driving.  Eventually it will catch up with you.” ~ Robin S. Sharma, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari

                        Quick-fixes do not work.

                          Quick-fixes do not work.

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                          “Quick-fixes do not work.  All lasting inner change requires time and effort.  Persistence is the mother of personal change.  I’m not saying that it will take years to make profound changes in your life.  If you diligently apply the strategies I am sharing with you every day for only one month, you will be astonished at the results.  You will begin to tap into the highest levels of your own capacity and enter the realm of the miraculous.  But to reach this destination, you must not get hung up on the outcome.  Instead, enjoy the process of personal expansion and growth.  Ironically, the less you focus on the end result, the quicker it will come.” ~ Robin S. Sharma, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari

                            “It is only when you have mastered the art of loving yourself that you can truly love others.  It’s only when you have opened your own heart that you can touch the hearts of others.  When you feel centered and alive, you are in a much better position to be a better person.” ~ Robin S. Sharma, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari

                            The Way of the Superior Man [Book]

                              Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

                              By: David Deida

                              From this Book: 26 Quotes

                              Book Overview:  What is your true purpose in life? What do women really want? What makes a good lover? If you’re a man reading this, you’ve undoubtedly asked yourself these questions—but you may not have had much luck answering them. Until now.  In The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida explores the most important issues in men’s lives—from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality and relationships—to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Join this bestselling author and internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality for straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help you realize a life of fulfillment, immediately and without compromise.

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                              Great on Kindle. Great Experience. Great Value. The Kindle edition of this book comes highly recommended on Amazon.

                              Post(s) Inspired by this Book:

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                                “In any given moment, a man’s growth is optimized if he leans just beyond his edge, his capacity, his fear.  He should not be too lazy, happily stagnating in the zone of security and comfort.  Nor should he push far beyond his edge, stressing himself unnecessarily, unable to metabolize his experience.  He should lean just slightly beyond the edge of fear and discomfort.  Constantly.  In everything he does.” ~ David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man