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    “If you aim to be something you are not, you will always fail. Aim to be you. Aim to look and act and think like you. Aim to be the truest version of you. Embrace that you-ness. Endorse it. Love it. Work hard at it. And don’t give a second thought when people mock it or ridicule it. Most gossip is envy in disguise. Keep your head down. Keep your stamina. Keep swimming…”

    Matt Haig, The Midnight Library (Page 93)

      “If it is not right, don’t do it: if it is not true, don’t say it.”

      Marcus Aurelius, Meditations (Page 118)

        “He who always listens to what other people say about him will never find inner peace.”

        Leo Tolstoy, A Calendar of Wisdom (Page 77)

          “Be afraid to destroy the unity of people by stirring bad feelings amongst them against another with your words.”

          Leo Tolstoy, A Calendar of Wisdom (Page 17)

            “Literature and gossip are closely related. People who are curious and imaginative long to know ‘what it’s like for other people.’ This longing can be satisfied in its basest, most banal form through gossip, just as it can attain a more refined and complex gratification in art. Both gossip and literature, each in its own way, are capable of offering a partial antidote to fanaticism, because they both relish the fascinating differences between people.” 

            Amos Oz