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Susan David Quote on False Positivity and Why We Shouldn’t Push Aside Difficult Emotions

    “When we push aside difficult emotions in order to embrace false positivity, we lose our capacity to develop deep skills to help us deal with the world as it is, not as we wish it to be.”

    Susan David, Ph.D, Mindful

    Beyond the Quote (27/365)

    This is the problem with positive thinking from a superficial standpoint.  If something sad happens and you try to cover it up with happy thoughts, like a kind of mask, you get an un-dealt-with-sadness that lies suppressed inside.  When something really upsets you and you try to distract your mind from confronting that “upset-ness,” those feelings will get pushed down and will continue to broil from deep within.

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