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Control Quotes

    “None of us can adequately control the meteorology of other people: they’re nice, they’re nasty, they come, they go. We have no choice but to address, alter and amend the inner coordinate if we want to have a different model of reality, if we want to have more choices.”

    Russell Brand, Recovery (Page 122) | Read Matt’s Blog on this quote ➜

      “In all circumstances—adversity or advantage—we really have just one thing we need to do: focus on what is in our control as opposed to what is not. Right now we might be laid low with struggles, whereas just a few years ago we might have lived high on the hog, and in just a few days we might be doing so well that success is actually a burden. One thing will stay constant: our freedom of choice—both in the big picture and the small picture. Ultimately, this is clarity.”

      Ryan Holiday, The Daily Stoic (Page 27)

      Quote from The New Mutants Movie on the Two Bears Inside (and How To Control The Evil Bear In You)

        Quote from The New Mutants Movie on the Two Bears Inside and How To Control The Evil Bear In You

        Excerpt: ‘Inside every person there are two bears, forever locked in combat for your soul. One bear is all things good, compassion, love, trust. The other is all things evil, fear, shame, and self-destruction.’ — This quote from The New Mutants Movie lays the foundation for a deeper discussion about what’s going on inside of ourselves. Enjoy!


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          “You can change it, you can accept it, or you can leave it. What is not a good option is to sit around wishing you would change it but not changing it, wishing you would leave it but not leaving it, and not accepting it. It’s that struggle, that aversion, that is responsible for most of our misery. The phrase that I use the most to myself in my head is one word: accept.”

          Naval Ravikant, Medium

            “A rational person can find peace by cultivating indifference to things outside of their control.”

            Naval Ravikant, Medium

              “In order to control myself I must first accept myself by going with and not against my nature.” ~ Bruce Lee

                “No man is good enough to govern another man without that other’s consent.” ~ Abraham Lincoln

                  “If you rely on strength, there’s a limit to strength.

                  As you get older your strength naturally declines. 

                  But there’s no limit to how much control you can develop.”

                  ~ Chow Hung-Yuen

                    “It’s not how hard you do it, but how easy and natural you do it.  There’s a big difference between a forced smile and a natural smile.” ~ Chow Hung-Yuen

                      “Power has to come from the inside out, not the outside in.  Forget about the other person’s power.  First, learn to control your own power.  Second, learn to control your opponent’s power.  Third, learn not to be controlled.” ~ Chow Hung-Yuen