“The amazing thing is this: 90% of a woman’s emotional problems stem from feeling unloved.  So don’t stand back and analyze her, like a doctor diagnosing a patient, or like a therapist questioning a client.  Give her your love – the same love that is motivating your questioning – immediately and unmistakably.  Walk over to her, look deeply into her eyes, hold her and stroke her, tell her how much you love her, smile, hum her favorite song and dance with her, and chances are, her emotional problem will evaporate.  She may still have some situation to deal with, and you may be able to help her with that, but the emotional aspect will be converted to love.” ~ David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man