“When you love someone, it’s not despite their limitations. It’s because of their limitations.  Of course, it’s complicated.  You don’t have to be in love with every shortcoming, and merely accept.  You shouldn’t stop trying to make life better, or let suffering just be.  But there appear to be limits on the path to improvement beyond which we might not want to go, lest we sacrifice our humanity itself.”

Jordan Peterson, via 12 Rules for Life (Page 347)