19 Quotes on Solitude from A Guy Who Spent A Year Alone in the Wilderness

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Excerpt: That’s right! 19 quotes on solitude from Robert Kull—the guy who spent a year alone in the extreme conditions of the Patagonia wilderness.

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Below, you will find our list of 19 quotes on solitude from Robert Kull—the guy who spent a year alone in the extreme conditions of the Patagonia wilderness. His book, Solitude: Seeking Wisdom in Extremes takes you along for the ride as he shares his thoughts, feelings, and actions as they were happening and panning out throughout his year alone.

The book is equal parts adventurous and exciting as it is lonely and monotonous. Being able to peak into his inner world as it all went down was the real intrigue. He records and shares his excitements, frustrations, sadnesses, insights, and desperations which make this book deeply personal and easy to get lost in.

If you’re looking for a window into someone else’s soul who was stuck in isolation and solitude so that you can get out of your own head, this would be a great book to explore. While this book was about much more than just insight and wisdom, below, you will see us focus on those tid-bits in particular. I hope they find you well.

The List: 19 Quotes on Solitude from A Guy Who Spent A Year Alone in the Wilderness

“To be fully human we need to cultivate a relationship not only with other people but also with our deeper selves and with Spirit.  Solitude can be a powerful context and catalyst for this process.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“In many cultures, solitude is recognized as an opportunity to journey inward; in our culture, spending time alone is often considered unhealthy because we tend to believe that meaning in life is found only through relationship with other people.  But to be fully human, we need relationship not only with other people but with the nonhuman world, with our own inner depths – and with Something Greater.  For me, that nonmaterial Presence is mysterious and sacred.  It can be experienced, but not defined.  And I’ve learned that in coming into a deeper relationship with my self, I develop the capacity to connect more deeply with others.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“It is sometimes said that when the student is ready the teacher appears.  It seems more likely that we are always in the presence of teachers, and at different stages in our development we become open to their teachings.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“No wonder I’m a perfectionist – always hoping that if I do things well enough I’ll finally feel loved and accepted.  So much of my activity is driven by pain: if I can just do it right, I won’t hurt anymore.  The trap is that it works – temporarily.  For a short time I do feel better, but then self-criticism sets in again and I need to accomplish something else – perfectly.”

Robert Kull, Solitud

“I spend so much time worrying about whether people will like and respect me in the years ahead, but there is nothing I can do to make that happen.  I can only work on liking and respecting myself and others, look for Spirit in each of us, and learn to accept inevitable frustration, fear, and anger without blaming myself or the external world.  My task is to stay centered, not manipulate others to make me feel ok.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“Our culture is so focused on progress that we frequently don’t experience our own lives just as they are here and now.  But the world will always be exactly as it is in each moment.  It’s astonishing how much time and energy we expend in trying to deny this simple fact.  This doesn’t imply passivity.  Our visions and ideals are also part of this moment.  Everything changes, no matter how slowly, and we can act to alleviate suffering.  Yet if plans for the future are not balanced with acceptance and joy in this moment, just as it is, our lives go unlived.  The challenge is to work with our lives as they are rather than imagine that things are different.  If we can learn to soften our aversions and desires, our lives might become less frantic and more spacious.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“We often seem to value activity above all else, but like all beings we need to rest and recuperate.  I suspect the widespread occurrence of depression in our culture is linked to our refusal to allow ourselves quiet time.  Feeling the need to remain constantly busy – mentally or physically – in socially productive activity can prevent us from turning inward to simply be with ourselves.  Such inward turning requires time and might lower productivity and social standing.  It is not that all activity is bad, but many of us are far out of balance and our activity does not come from a place of stillness and wisdom.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“We have seriously confounded luxury with necessity in our culture, and can no longer differentiate between what we want in order to maintain a particular lifestyle (with its social relationships and sensual pleasures) and what we actually need for physical survival.  We have confounded social identity with biological and spiritual being to the point of believing we will die if we lose our social standing, which is often based on the material wealth we have accumulated.  This accelerating spiral of desires becoming necessities is driving our suicidal rush to destroy the Earth we depend on for our actual physical survival.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“Where are we trying to get to with our incessant activity?  To the stars?  But we’re already as among the stars as we will ever be.  Better quality of life?  The quality we seek is lost in the seeking.  Truly we have it backward with our continual striving for what we don’t have and avoidance of what we do.  What we crave most deeply we have always had.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“Joy comes from living fully in the here and now, no matter what the circumstance.  To live like that I must give up wanting things to be different.  The hardest is to give up wanting things to be different.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“It isn’t actually non-doing that generates anxiety, but rather fretting about doing or not doing.  When I’m simply in the moment, without worrying about what I ought to be doing, my mind is at ease.  It’s when I try to microplan everything that my imagination runs amok – because I can’t really know what will happen.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“Anxiety is part of our human condition, and we need to learn to treat it as an old friend, or least a familiar acquaintance.  Many therapists say to do something to avoid anxiety, but in such endless activity much of our experience – joyful and painful – is lost.  Seems like a hard bargain.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“And that’s the trick.  Somehow in looking back, almost any situation seems to have been ok.  The challenge is to live that acceptance in the present, not just in memory.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“Not only is everything I experience part of who I am, Spirit-filled, and not to be rejected, but there is no need to go searching for something special anywhere else.  Everything life has to offer is always right here wherever I am right now.  There is no place more alive and sacred than this place.  No time more alive and sacred than this time.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“The strong sensations we generally label as pain are inherent to living, but we can work with the quality of our experience in relation to these sensations.  If we resist them, our resistance actually intensifies the sensations and thus creates additional pain.  Another common way we intensify pain is by taking it personally and having a ‘why me?’ attitude.  If we can relax into pain as a natural part of living that everyone experiences, and let go of the self-judgment that something is wrong with me because I’m experiencing pain, we can alleviate our suffering to a large degree. Much of our suffering is caused by attachment to our sense of a separate autonomous ‘I’ that can somehow achieve a permanent state of affairs with only pleasure and no pain.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“I feel I somehow own myself and have the right to control what I do and feel and what happens to me.  From there it follows that the world is mine to do with as I wish.  But I didn’t make me, nor do I own me or the world.  I’m just part of the flow of existence.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“Sometimes, I actually experience that there is no outside or inside, that the weather and my feelings are a continuum, that the world is not, cannot be, against me since there is not separation between us.  I am the wind and rain.  In those moments I feel peace and joy.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“Deep peace and harmony seem to arise when I surrender to the flow of the world, not when I’m analyzing it or staying busy to shut it out.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

“The aliveness, peace, beauty, and love I seek are never out there, but always right here right now.”

Robert Kull, Solitude

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