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Because I Could Not Stop for Death

    Because I could not stop for Death,
    He kindly stopped for me;
    The carriage held but just ourselves
    And Immortality.

    We slowly drove, he knew no haste,
    And I had put away
    My labor, and my leisure too,
    For his civility.

    We passed the school where children played
    At wrestling in a ring;
    We passed the fields of gazing grain,
    We passed the setting sun.

    We paused before a house that seemed
    A swelling of the ground;
    The roof was scarcely visible,
    The cornice but a mound.

    Since then ’tis centuries; but each
    Feels shorter than the day
    I first surmised the horses’ heads
    Were toward eternity.

    ~ Emily Dickinson

    If I Can Stop

      If I can stop one heart from breaking,

      I shall not live in vain;

      If I can ease one life the aching,

      Or cool one pain,

      Or help one fainting robin

      Unto his nest again,

      I shall not live in vain.

      ~ Emily Dickinson

      T’is So Much Joy

        ’T is so much joy! ’T is so much joy!

        If I should fail, what poverty!

        And yet, as poor as I

        Have ventured all upon a throw;

        Have gained! Yes! Hesitated so

        This side the victory!

        Life is but life, and death but death!

        Bliss is but bliss, and breath but breath!

        And if, indeed, I fail,

        At least to know the worst is sweet.

        Defeat means nothing but defeat,

        No drearier can prevail!

        And if I gain,—oh, gun at sea,

        Oh, bells that in the steeples be,

        At first repeat it slow!

        For heaven is a different thing

        Conjectured, and waked sudden in,

        And might o’erwhelm me so!

        ~ Emily Dickinson

        If Tomorrow Starts Without Me…

          If tomorrow starts without me, and I’m not here to see,

          If the sun should rise you find your eyes all filled with tears for me

          I wish so much you wouldn’t cry the way you did today,

          While thinking of the many things we didn’t get to say.

          I know how much you love me, as much as I love you

          And each time that you think of me, I know you’ll miss me too.

          But when tomorrow starts without me please try to understand,

          That an angel came and called my name and took me by the hand.

          He said my place was ready, in heaven far above

          And that I’d have to leave behind all those I dearly love.

          But as I turned and walked away a tear fell from my eye.

          For all my life I’d always thought, I didn’t want to die.

          I had so much to live for, so much left yet to do.

          It seemed almost impossible that I was leaving you.

          I thought of all the yesterdays the good ones and the bad.

          I thought of all the love we shared, and all the fun we had.

          If I could relive yesterday, just even for a while,

          I’d say goodbye and kiss you and maybe see you smile.

          But then I fully realized that this could never be,

          For emptiness and memories would take the place of me.

          When I thought of worldly things I might miss come tomorrow

          I thought of you and when I did my heart was filled with sorrow.

          When I walked through heavens gates I felt so much at home.

          God looked down and smiled at me from his great golden throne

          He said, “This is eternity and all I’ve promised you”

          Today your life on earth has passed but here life starts anew.

          I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last

          And since each day is the same there’s no longing for the past.

          You have been so faithful so trusting and so true.

          Though there were times you did some things you knew you shouldn’t do.

          You have been forgiven and now at last you’re free.

          So won’t you come and take my hand and share my life with me?

          So when tomorrow starts with out me don’t think we’re far apart,

          For every time you think of me, I’m right here in your heart.

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          Still I Rise

            You may write me down in history
            With your bitter, twisted lies,
            You may trod me in the very dirt
            But still, like dust, I’ll rise.

            Does my sassiness upset you?
            Why are you beset with gloom?
            ‘Cause I walk like I’ve got oil wells
            Pumping in my living room.

            Just like moons and like suns,
            With the certainty of tides,
            Just like hopes springing high,
            Still I’ll rise.

            Did you want to see me broken?
            Bowed head and lowered eyes?
            Shoulders falling down like teardrops,
            Weakened by my soulful cries?

            Does my haughtiness offend you?
            Don’t you take it awful hard
            ‘Cause I laugh like I’ve got gold mines
            Diggin’ in my own backyard.

            You may shoot me with your words,
            You may cut me with your eyes,
            You may kill me with your hatefulness,
            But still, like air, I’ll rise.

            Does my sexiness upset you?
            Does it come as a surprise
            That I dance like I’ve got diamonds
            At the meeting of my thighs?

            Out of the huts of history’s shame
            I rise
            Up from a past that’s rooted in pain
            I rise
            I’m a black ocean, leaping and wide,
            Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.

            Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
            I rise
            Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear
            I rise
            Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
            I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
            I rise
            I rise
            I rise.

            ~ Maya Angelou, 1928 – 2014

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            The Ship

              I am standing on the seashore.

              A ship appears

              and spreads her white sails

              to the morning breeze

              and starts for the ocean.

              She is an object of beauty

              and I stand watching her

              till at last she fades away on the horizon,

              and someone at my side quietly says,

              “She is gone.”  Gone where?

              Gone from my vision, that is all;

              she is just as large as when I saw her last.

               

              The diminished size

              and the total loss of sight

              is in me, not in her;

              and just at the moment

              when someone at my side says,

              “She is gone,”

              There are others who are watching

              her coming and other voices

              take up a joyful shout,

              “There she comes!”

               

              Author Unkown

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              Source: Today Matters by John C. Maxwell

              The Lifebuilder’s Creed

                By Dale Witherington

                Today is the most important day of my life.
                Yesterday with its successes and victories, struggles and failures is gone forever.
                The past is past.
                Done.
                Finished.
                I cannot relive it. I cannot go back and change it.
                But I will learn from it and improve my TODAY.

                TODAY. This moment. NOW.
                It is God’s gift to me and it is all that I have.

                Tomorrow with all its joys and sorrows, triumphs and
                troubles isn’t here yet.
                Indeed, tomorrow may never come.
                Therefore, I will not worry about tomorrow.

                Today is what God has entrusted to me.
                It is all that I have. I will do my best in it.
                I will demonstrate the best of me in it —
                my character, giftedness, and abilities —
                to my family and friends, clients and associates.
                I will identify those things that are most important to do TODAY,
                and those things I will do until they are done.
                And when this day is done
                I will look back with satisfaction at that
                which I have accomplished.
                Then, and only then, will I plan my tomorrow,
                Looking to improve upon Today, with God’s help.

                Then I shall go to sleep in peace … content.

                —— —— ——

                Source: Today Matters by John C. Maxwell

                You Will Be What You Will Be

                  You will be what you will be;

                  Let failure find its false content

                  In that poor word, “environment,”

                  But spirit scorns it, and is free.

                   

                  It masters time, it conquers space;

                  It cows that boastful trickster, Chance,

                  And bids the tyrant Circumstance

                  Uncrown, and fill a servant’s place.

                   

                  The human Will, that force unseen,

                  The offspring of a deathless Soul,

                  Can hew a way to any goal,

                  Though walls of granite intervene.

                   

                  Be not impatient in delay,

                  But wait as one who understands;

                  When spirit rises and commands,

                  The gods are ready to obey.

                   

                  via As a Man Thinketh

                  The Bridge Builder

                    An old man going a lone highway,
                    Came, at the evening cold and gray,
                    To a chasm vast and deep and wide.
                    Through which was flowing a sullen tide
                    The old man crossed in the twilight dim,
                    The sullen stream had no fear for him;
                    But he turned when safe on the other side
                    And built a bridge to span the tide.

                    “Old man,” said a fellow pilgrim near,
                    “You are wasting your strength with building here;
                    Your journey will end with the ending day,
                    You never again will pass this way;
                    You’ve crossed the chasm, deep and wide,
                    Why build this bridge at evening tide?”

                    The builder lifted his old gray head;
                    “Good friend, in the path I have come,” he said,
                    “There followed after me to-day
                    A youth whose feet must pass this way.
                    This chasm that has been as naught to me
                    To that fair-haired youth may a pitfall be;
                    He, too, must cross in the twilight dim;
                    Good friend, I am building this bridge for him!”

                    By Will Allen Dromgoole

                    If –

                      If you can keep your head when all about you
                      Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
                      If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
                      But make allowance for their doubting too;
                      If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
                      Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
                      Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
                      And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

                      If you can dream – and not make dreams your master;
                      If you can think – and not make thoughts your aim;
                      If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
                      And treat those two impostors just the same;
                      If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
                      Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
                      Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
                      And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

                      If you can make one heap of all your winnings
                      And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
                      And lose, and start again at your beginnings
                      And never breathe a word about your loss;
                      If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
                      To serve your turn long after they are gone,
                      And so hold on when there is nothing in you
                      Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

                      If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
                      Or walk with Kings – nor lose the common touch,
                      If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
                      If all men count with you, but none too much;
                      If you can fill the unforgiving minute
                      With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
                      Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
                      And – which is more – you’ll be a Man, my son!

                      ~ Rudyard Kipling

                      Be Thankful

                        “Be thankful that you don’t already have everything you desire,
                        If you did, what would there be to look forward to?
                        Be thankful when you don’t know something
                        For it gives you the opportunity to learn.

                        Be thankful for the difficult times.
                        During those times you grow.
                        Be thankful for your limitations
                        Because they give you opportunities for improvement.
                        Be thankful for each new challenge
                        Because it will build your strength and character.

                        Be thankful for your mistakes
                        They will teach you valuable lessons.
                        Be thankful when you’re tired and weary
                        Because it means you’ve made a difference.
                        It is easy to be thankful for the good things.
                        A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are
                        also thankful for the setbacks.

                        GRATITUDE can turn a negative into a positive.
                        Find a way to be thankful for your troubles
                        and they can become your blessings.”

                        ~ Author Unknown

                        The Paradoxical Commandments

                          People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.
                          Love them anyway.

                          If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
                          Do good anyway.

                          If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
                          Succeed anyway.

                          The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
                          Do good anyway.

                          Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
                          Be honest and frank anyway.

                          The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
                          Think big anyway.

                          People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.
                          Fight for a few underdogs anyway.

                          What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
                          Build anyway.

                          People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.
                          Help people anyway.

                          Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth.
                          Give the world the best you have anyway.

                          ~ Dr. Kent M. Keith

                          Dead Poet’s Society

                            “Gather the rosebuds while ye may, Old Time is still a-flying;
                            And this same flower that smiles today, to-morrow will be dying.”

                            “Why does the poet write these lines?” Keating asks “Because we are food for worms, lads! Because we’re only going to experience a limited number of springs, summers, and falls. One day, hard as it is to believe, each and every one of us is going to stop breathing, turn cold, and die!”

                            [now looking at old photographs of former Welton students in a trophy case] “They are not that different than any of you, are they? There’s hope in their eyes, just like in yours. They believe themselves destined for wonderful things, just like many of you. Well, where are those smiles now, boys? What of that hope?”

                            “Did most of them not wait until it was too late before making their lives into even one iota of what they were capable? In chasing the almighty deity of success did they not squander their boyhood dreams? Most of those gentlemen are fertilizing daffodils now. However, if you get very close, boys, you can hear them whisper. Go ahead, lean in. Hear it?

                            “Carpe Diem, lads. Seize the day. Make your lives extraordinary!”

                            ~ The Dead Poets Society

                              When we first talked to each other
                              I knew we would always be friends.
                              Our friendship has kept on growing
                              And I’ll be here for you to the end.

                              You listen when I have a problem
                              And help dry the tears from my face.
                              You take away my sorrow
                              And put happiness in its place.

                              We can’t forget the fun we’ve had
                              Laughing ’til our faces turn blue.
                              Talking of things only we find funny
                              People think we’re insane-If they only knew!

                              I guess this is my way of saying thanks
                              For catching me when I fall.
                              Thanks once again for being such a good friend
                              And being here with me through it all.

                              ~ Rachel Ellis

                              Take Each Day As It Comes

                                Write it on your heart
                                that every day is the best day in the year.
                                He is rich who owns the day, and no one owns the day
                                who allows it to be invaded with fret and anxiety.

                                Finish every day and be done with it.
                                You have done what you could.
                                Some blunders and absurdities, no doubt crept in.
                                Forget them as soon as you can, tomorrow is a new day;
                                begin it well and serenely, with too high a spirit
                                to be cumbered with your old nonsense.

                                This new day is too dear,
                                with its hopes and invitations,
                                to waste a moment on the yesterdays.

                                ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

                                She is Gone!

                                  You can shed tears that she is gone,

                                  or you can smile because she has lived.

                                  You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back,

                                  or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left.

                                  Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her,

                                  or you can be full of the love you shared.

                                  You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,

                                  or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

                                  You can remember her only that she is gone,

                                  or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.

                                  You can cry and close your mind,

                                  be empty and turn your back.

                                  Or you can do what she’d want:

                                  smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

                                  ~ David Harkins

                                  I Will Not Die An Unlived Life.

                                    I will not die an unlived life.

                                    I will not live in fear

                                    of falling or catching fire.

                                    I choose to inhabit my days,

                                    to allow my living to open me,

                                    to make me less afraid,

                                    more accessible;

                                    to loosen my heart

                                    until it becomes a wing,

                                    a torch, a promise.

                                    I choose to risk my significance,

                                    to live so that which came to me as seed

                                    goes to the next as blossom,

                                    and that which came to me as blossom,

                                    goes on as fruit.

                                    ~ Dawna Markova

                                    Two Tramps in Mud Time

                                      Out of the mud two strangers came
                                      And caught me splitting wood in the yard,
                                      And one of them put me off my aim
                                      By hailing cheerily “Hit them hard!”
                                      I knew pretty well why he had dropped behind
                                      And let the other go on a way.
                                      I knew pretty well what he had in mind:
                                      He wanted to take my job for pay.

                                      Good blocks of oak it was I split,
                                      As large around as the chopping block;
                                      And every piece I squarely hit
                                      Fell splinterless as a cloven rock.
                                      The blows that a life of self-control
                                      Spares to strike for the common good,
                                      That day, giving a loose my soul,
                                      I spent on the unimportant wood.

                                      The sun was warm but the wind was chill.
                                      You know how it is with an April day
                                      When the sun is out and the wind is still,
                                      You’re one month on in the middle of May.
                                      But if you so much as dare to speak,
                                      A cloud comes over the sunlit arch,
                                      A wind comes off a frozen peak,
                                      And you’re two months back in the middle of March.

                                      A bluebird comes tenderly up to alight
                                      And turns to the wind to unruffle a plume,
                                      His song so pitched as not to excite
                                      A single flower as yet to bloom.
                                      It is snowing a flake; and he half knew
                                      Winter was only playing possum.
                                      Except in color he isn’t blue,
                                      But he wouldn’t advise a thing to blossom.

                                      The water for which we may have to look
                                      In summertime with a witching wand,
                                      In every wheelrut’s now a brook,
                                      In every print of a hoof a pond.
                                      Be glad of water, but don’t forget
                                      The lurking frost in the earth beneath
                                      That will steal forth after the sun is set
                                      And show on the water its crystal teeth.

                                      The time when most I loved my task
                                      The two must make me love it more
                                      By coming with what they came to ask.
                                      You’d think I never had felt before
                                      The weight of an ax-head poised aloft,
                                      The grip of earth on outspread feet,
                                      The life of muscles rocking soft
                                      And smooth and moist in vernal heat.

                                      Out of the wood two hulking tramps
                                      (From sleeping God knows where last night,
                                      But not long since in the lumber camps).
                                      They thought all chopping was theirs of right.
                                      Men of the woods and lumberjacks,
                                      The judged me by their appropriate tool.
                                      Except as a fellow handled an ax
                                      They had no way of knowing a fool.

                                      Nothing on either side was said.
                                      They knew they had but to stay their stay
                                      And all their logic would fill my head:
                                      As that I had no right to play
                                      With what was another man’s work for gain.
                                      My right might be love but theirs was need.
                                      And where the two exist in twain
                                      Theirs was the better right–agreed.

                                      But yield who will to their separation,
                                      My object in living is to unite
                                      My avocation and my vocation
                                      As my two eyes make one in sight.
                                      Only where love and need are one,
                                      And the work is play for mortal stakes,
                                      Is the deed ever really done
                                      For Heaven and the future’s sakes.

                                      ~ Robert Frost

                                      ‘Tis the Set of the Sail — or — One Ship Sails East

                                        But to every mind there openeth,
                                        A way, and way, and away,
                                        A high soul climbs the highway,
                                        And the low soul gropes the low,
                                        And in between on the misty flats,
                                        The rest drift to and fro.

                                        But to every man there openeth,
                                        A high way and a low,
                                        And every mind decideth,
                                        The way his soul shall go.

                                        One ship sails East,
                                        And another West,
                                        By the self-same winds that blow,
                                        ‘Tis the set of the sails
                                        And not the gales,
                                        That tells the way we go.

                                        Like the winds of the sea
                                        Are the waves of time,
                                        As we journey along through life,
                                        ‘Tis the set of the soul,
                                        That determines the goal,
                                        And not the calm or the strife.

                                        ~ Ella Wheeler Wilcox