“Just think of someone who has never come across a mirror.  Can he close his eyes and see his face?  Impossible.  He cannot even imagine his face, he cannot meditate on it.  But a man who has come to a mirror, looked into it, known his face through it, can close his eyes and see the face inside.  That’s what happens in relationship.  When a person moves into a relationship the relationship mirrors, reflects himself, and he comes to know many things that he never knew existed in him.” ~ Osho, The Art of Living and Dying