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Humble the Poet Quote on Reducing Social Media Usage

    “Reducing my social media usage has made me more aware of how addicted I was to the micro-gratification it gave me, and it has reduced the number of times I beat up on myself.  I was no longer falling into the rabbit hole of other people’s carefully curated presentations of their lives and then comparing those presentations to the whole of myself—at least not as much as I was doing that before.  And I instantly started feeling better.”

    Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 225)

    Beyond the Quote (86/365)

    One tip that has helped me reduce my social media consumption was making it a rule that before I could consume, I had to produce.  In other words, before I allowed myself to look at any of my social media timelines or feeds, I had to produce content for those feeds, first.  This idea has forced me to engage and actively participate in the ongoing conversations rather than just passively and mindlessly consume them.  Furthermore, by not scrolling as frequently on never-ending timelines, I have been able to focus more on myself and the tasks of my day rather than others and the undertakings of their days.

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    Osho Quote on Meaning and How It Arises

      “When a poet writes a poem, meaning arises – because the poet is not alone; he has created something. When a dancer dances, meaning arises. When a mother gives birth to a child, meaning arises. Left alone, cut off from everything else, isolated like an island, you are meaningless. Joined together you are meaningful. The bigger the whole, the bigger is the meaning.”

      Osho, The Book of Understanding

      Beyond the Quote (85/365)

      Isolated might feel like the physical reality, but it doesn’t have to be the emotional state.  Isolated might make the feeling of meaninglessness arise, but meaning extends beyond just physical connection.  Think about the power of creation.  Creation is the act of giving birth to something that otherwise would not have never existed.  Before creation there is just you.  And for as long as you continue to remain in isolation physically, mentally, and emotionally—no meaning will arise.  How could it?

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      Eckhart Tolle Quote on Taking Responsibility and Making the Present Moment Your Ally

        “Maybe you are being taken advantage of, maybe the activity you are engaged in is tedious, maybe someone close to you is dishonest, irritating, or unconscious, but all this is irrelevant.  Whether your thoughts and emotions about this situation are justified or not makes no difference.  The fact is that you are resisting what is.  You are making the present moment into an enemy.  You are creating unhappiness, conflict between the inner and the outer.  Your unhappiness is polluting not only your own inner being and those around you but also the collective human psyche of which you are an inseparable part.  The pollution of the planet is only an outward reflection of an inner psychic pollution: millions of unconscious individuals not taking responsibility for their inner space.”

        Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now (Page 77)

        Beyond the Quote (82/365)

        It’s easy to point fingers, to yell at a screen, to identify all of the faults in other people’s decisions and actions—it’s hard to take responsibility and make positive decisions yourself.  What’s makes this harder is that you might even be right.  The mess of the world might very well be the fault of another—or the fault of many others.  But as Tolle points out, whether your thoughts and emotions about a given situation are justified or not makes no difference.

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        Gary Vaynerchuk Quote on Energy and Shifting from “Defense” to “Offense” During COVID-19

          “Whatever energy you put into something will manifest itself in equal amounts when it comes out.”

          Gary Vaynerchuk, Crushing It

          Beyond the Quote (81/365)

          Rather than go on defense and pray and wait and hope that everything turns out okay for you and your family—go on offense!  Time is our most precious commodity and if you have an abundance of it from the COVID-19 crisis, then it’s time to utilize that time and make something happen.  And I’m not talking about panic buying and stocking up on your toilet paper.  I’m talking about taking initiative and making moves that will leave you—not behind or even in alignment with where you were before the crisis—but AHEAD.  And the only way to get ahead is to shift from ‘damage-control’ defense to ‘abundance-mindset’ offense.  Here are some ideas:

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          S. C. Lourie Quote on Being Worthy and Accepting of Where You Are—No More Hiding

            “Be confused, it’s where you begin to learn new things. Be broken, it’s where you begin to heal. Be frustrated, it’s where you start to make more authentic decisions. Be sad, because if we are brave enough we can hear our heart’s wisdom through it. Be whatever you are right now. No more hiding. You are worthy, always.”

            S. C. Lourie

            Beyond the Quote (80/365)

            Life doesn’t always have to be sunshine and rainbows.  And it certainly runs deeper than smiles and ease.  But you already know this.  You’ve felt it: the confusion, the sadness, the frustration, the brokenness, the misery, the pain—it’s all a part of the experience of life.  What you need to know is that it’s okay to feel these emotions.  It doesn’t make you any less human to feel the breadth and depth of the emotional spectrum—if anything, it makes you more human.

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            Humble the Poet Quote on Managing Expectations and Going From “High” to “Low” to “None”

              “Jumping into anything with low expectations is the best way to exceed expectations, so keep that in mind when deciding your next move.”

              Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 131)

              Beyond the Quote (79/365)

              Rather than low expectations, try no expectations.  When you hold a stance that maintains expectations, you are putting energy into a future result that will distract you from your present task.  Once you have made up your mind about what your next move will be, do just that.  And focus all of your resources on doing that task to the best of your ability—not into acquiring a certain result. Maintain the mindset of now and empty your mind of what might happen in the future.  This is how you will produce your best work and this is how you will best take care of the tasks you set out to do.  And as the saying goes, taking care of this moment is the best insurance you have for the next moment.

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              Tony Robbins Quote on Caring For Your Mind, Emotions, and Spirit Like A Garden—The Ultimate Garden

                “Think of your mind, your emotions, and your spirit as the ultimate garden. The way to ensure a bountiful, nourishing harvest is to plant seeds like love, warmth, and appreciation, instead of seeds like disappointment, anger, and fear.”

                Tony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within

                Beyond the Quote (78/365)

                What seeds are you planting today?  Are you planting seeds of love, warmth, and appreciation in the garden of your mind?  What about in the minds of those around you?  Seeds don’t just plant themselves.  They need you to produce them first.  Some are easier to produce and plant than others.  Some get planted and start growing without you even knowing it.  Some take a ton of careful attention and hard work to cultivate and nurture to maturity.  One thing is for sure though, the ultimate garden of the mind requires constant effort and refinement in order to flourish—and mindfulness is the tool we need to use in order to see what needs to be done.

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                Humble the Poet Quote on Comparing Ourselves To Others (and Why That Can Be Dangerous)

                  “I was comparing myself to everyone and anyone I encountered.  If I was making music and met a well-off stockbroker, my mind would ask, ‘Why aren’t you selling stocks?’ When money got better, but I met someone with a beautiful body, I’d ask, ‘Why aren’t you spending more time in the gym?’  I would identify all the gaps in my life on the basis of whomever I crossed paths with.  That’s a dangerous thing because everyone we meet will always have something we don’t have.”

                  Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 121)

                  Beyond the Quote (77/365)

                  Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who somebody else is today.  As Humble mentions above, you’re going to meet people who have more money; who have more beautiful bodies; who are more popular; who are more intelligent than you.  What you can’t do when you meet them is compare where you are on your journey to where they are on their journey.

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                  Thich Nhat Hanh Quote on Suffering and Having Compassion For Those Who Are In Pain

                    “When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over.  He does not need punishment; he needs help.  That’s the message he is sending.”

                    Thich Nhat Hanh

                    Beyond the Quote (76/365)

                    Below, you will find an exchange between another person and I in regards to the quote above and the caption I put up for it.  It’s a good exchange and there are elements that I think are worth elaborating on and discussing.  Here is the exchange:

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                    Rob Dyer Quote on Staying Focused On The Right Things—Things That Bring Us Together

                      “At the end of the day, you can either focus on what’s tearing you apart, or what’s holding you together.”

                      Rob Dyer

                      Beyond the Quote (74/365)

                      There is a lot happening right now that can make us feel like we’re being torn apart.  With the threat and spread of the Coronavirus (COVID-19), there is more and more happening each day that is moving us further and further apart and into smaller and smaller groups (even into isolation).  Everything from the biggest organizational gatherings in the world to the most remote meetings in our own backyard are being postponed and cancelled to prevent the spread of the virus.  During this time when we are being forced apart physically, we need to find ways to continue to come together mentally and emotionally.

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                      Albert Einstein Quote on Monotony and Solitude and How It Affects Creativity

                        “The monotony and solitude of a quiet life stimulates the creative mind.”

                        Albert Einstein

                        Beyond the Quote (73/365)

                        In lieu of recent events, it seems as though many of us are going to be experiencing more monotony and solitude than we otherwise might have expected or wanted.  And while, yes, the unknowns associated with the Coronavirus (COVID-19) are certainly nerve-wracking and have been demanding our full attention, if you find yourself in a position of isolation or solitude—rather than looking at it as a prison from exploring the outside world, why not try looking at it as an opportunity to explore the depths of your inside world?

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                        Paul Hogan Quote on Dealing With A Mental Health Diagnosis

                          “The one quick comment I would make has to do with this idea that we who live day-to-day with whatever [mental health] diagnosis we have are acting courageously or are brave to face the world.  I don’t experience it as an act of courage or bravery; I experience it more as an act of defiance.  When I swing my legs over the edge of the bed to face the day, what drives me is a refusal to lay back down; a defiance of the diagnosis.  Defiance is often rooted in anger and I certainly feel and show that anger from time to time.  People sometimes feel the anger is directed towards them—but it isn’t.  Defiance is a strategy for engaging this thing.  Of course defiance takes huge amounts of energy to sustain and of course, since I never actually will overcome this thing, that means that from time-to-time I need to back down; move away; rest.  It’s like wrestling with a bear.  Sometimes you get the bear; sometimes the bear gets you.  But that’s okay, because sometimes, you get the bear.”

                          Paul Hogan

                          Beyond the Quote (72/365)

                          I do not have a mental health diagnosis and I, therefore, have never had to confront the challenges associated with having one.  I have known people who have had them, my dad being one of them, and have witnessed the challenges first hand, but it has always been from the outside looking in.  I know that it is an entirely different world from the outside looking in than it is from the inside looking out.  But it is through our attempt to share, to the best of our ability, what the hell is going on from the inside looking out that we may ever gain insight and move forward in our own lives.  After all, what is insight other than thoughts of value that are gained from peering into each other’s inner worlds?  Insight is what illuminates the way.

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                          Seth Godin Quote on Quitting—Quitting More So You Can Focus More On What Matters [Plus 30 Things to Consider Quitting]

                            “Sticking things out is overrated, particularly if you stick out the wrong things.  In fact, I think you’d be much better off quitting most of what you do so you have the resources to get through the hard slog I call the Dip.  The challenge, then, is to not quit in the Dip, but instead to quit everything else so you have the focus to get through the slog of what matters.”

                            Seth Godin, Whatcha Gonna Do With That Duck?

                            Beyond the Quote (71/365)

                            What should we stick out and what should we quit?  I can tell you that the list of things we should stick out is far smaller than the list of things we should quit.  And after some reflection, what you might find is that your list of things that you’ve been sticking out is WAY bigger than you might have imagined it to be and the things you SHOULD be sticking out might not even be making it to your daily to-do list at all.  My instinct tells me that the follow 6 things are worth sticking out without explaination: Reading, Writing, Exercising, Meditating, Learning, and Connecting. 

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                            Vince Lombardi Quote on How Winners Never Quit—And Why I Disagree

                              “Winners never quit and quitters never win.” ~ Vince Lombardi

                              Beyond the Quote (70/365)

                              I disagree.  In fact, I believe that winners actually quit more than those who lose.  The difference is that they know what to quit, when to quit, how to quit, and have the courage and discipline to do so.  Of course, Lombardi is likely referring to the idea that winners never quit in pursuit of their primary goal(s) in life and those who do quit in pursuit of their primary goal(s) will never win at them—this might be obvious.

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                              Ryan Holiday Quote on Producing Good Work—Despite The Challenges

                                “Work is finding yourself alone at the track when the weather kept everyone else indoors.  Work is pushing through the pain and crappy first drafts and prototypes.  It is ignoring whatever plaudits others are getting, and more importantly, ignoring whatever plaudits you may be getting.  Because there is work to be done.  Work doesn’t want to be good.  It is made so, despite the headwind.”

                                Ryan Holiday, Ego is the Enemy

                                Beyond the Quote (69/365)

                                Why do all of this work at all?  Why show up when it’s raining and cold?  Why push through writing tasks when Netflix is one click away?  Why keep working when you’re getting praised and approved of for what you’ve already done?  Why not stay indoors, become complacent, relax, and soak in the compliments you’ve already received?  …Well, because that’s not how your best work comes to life—that’s why.  And that task of bringing to life your best work, may be your most important calling on this earth. 

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