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Vince Lombardi Quote on How Winners Never Quit—And Why I Disagree

    “Winners never quit and quitters never win.” ~ Vince Lombardi

    Beyond the Quote (70/365)

    I disagree.  In fact, I believe that winners actually quit more than those who lose.  The difference is that they know what to quit, when to quit, how to quit, and have the courage and discipline to do so.  Of course, Lombardi is likely referring to the idea that winners never quit in pursuit of their primary goal(s) in life and those who do quit in pursuit of their primary goal(s) will never win at them—this might be obvious.

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      “All of our emotions have value, and as unpleasant as some are, they’re reminders that we’re alive and have a whole lot going on inside.  Why not approach life with curiosity and wonder, instead of dread and fear.  We don’t avoid movies because we know they’ll end.  We enjoy the journey they take us on.  Our journey is life, and no one makes it out alive; the finish is death, so let’s enjoy life while we can, with those we love, while they’re still here.” ~ Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 46)

        “Sometimes when things feel too heavy, I ask myself, ‘Will this matter in three hundred years?’ and I think about the fact that no one I know will be around then—none of their judgments, opinions, debts, or drudges—and that I should enjoy this journey while I’m still healthy enough to do so.  In three hundred years it won’t matter that I wasn’t invited to this or that event or included on this or that list or was able to connect with this or that person.  It won’t matter that I showed up wearing a mustard stain on my outfit or that I didn’t proofread my text message before I hit ‘send.’  Figuring out what will matter in three hundred years will result in a much shorter list—almost next to nothing.” ~ Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 37)

          “The way to attract good luck is to be reliable in a valuable area.  The more you repeatedly deliver value, the more people seek you out for that value.  Your reputation is a magnet. Once you become known for something, relevant opportunities come to you with no extra work.” ~ James Clear, Blog

          Ryan Holiday Quote on Producing Good Work—Despite The Challenges

            “Work is finding yourself alone at the track when the weather kept everyone else indoors.  Work is pushing through the pain and crappy first drafts and prototypes.  It is ignoring whatever plaudits others are getting, and more importantly, ignoring whatever plaudits you may be getting.  Because there is work to be done.  Work doesn’t want to be good.  It is made so, despite the headwind.”

            Ryan Holiday, Ego is the Enemy

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            Why do all of this work at all?  Why show up when it’s raining and cold?  Why push through writing tasks when Netflix is one click away?  Why keep working when you’re getting praised and approved of for what you’ve already done?  Why not stay indoors, become complacent, relax, and soak in the compliments you’ve already received?  …Well, because that’s not how your best work comes to life—that’s why.  And that task of bringing to life your best work, may be your most important calling on this earth. 

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            Quote About Showing Up For Life—On Collecting Scars Not Avoiding Bruises

              “Maybe life isn’t about avoiding the bruises. Maybe it’s about collecting the scars to prove we showed up for it.”

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              Good judgement comes from bad judgement remembered.  Bad judgement happens when we interact with the world in a way that doesn’t align with the nature of reality.  The only way we can ever know if our judgement is “good” or “bad” is by interacting with the world.  Reality is the judge and the jury.  By avoiding reality, we avoid finding out.  By not finding out, we avoid getting bruised, yes, but we also avoid the deeply felt lessons that only those bruises can ever deliver—the lessons that only reality can teach us.

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                “We never really get over our traumas, and as much as we heal, scars will remain.  That doesn’t mean we need to view those scars as reminders of our injuries; instead, we can see them as proof of our resilience.” ~ Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 30)

                  “The people we have won’t always be here, so let’s not deprive ourselves of their presence simply because we’re too caught up in wanting more of some other stuff.  That other stuff won’t last either—nothing does.  So let’s appreciate who and what we have while we still have it.  If we’re not happy with what we have, we won’t be very happy with all that we get.” ~ Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 22)

                    “Remembering that the people in our lives won’t be here forever is the best way to motivate us to be as wonderful to them as possible, while they’re still here.  It’s tricky, since we’re not really wired to remember this fact, but when we make the active effort to keep it in mind, beautiful choices come from that effort.” ~ Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 22)

                      “I decided that if someone wasn’t helping me get to where I needed to be, then that person most likely was getting in my way.  I didn’t make any proclamations or write anybody a Dear John letter, thus liberating myself from their harmful clutches.  I didn’t say a thing to anybody; I just stopped engaging with people who I felt were standing in my way rather than helping me and I began to focus more on myself.” ~ Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 16)

                        “Nothing lasts forever, and that’s both tragic and comic, depending on how we look at it—so how we look at it, our perspective, is the thing we can, and should, control.  We can give ourselves a facepalm when we look at that old outfit, or we can try it on and dance around the room summoning up the spirits and smiles of yesterday—a beautiful reminder of how far we’ve come.” ~ Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 15)

                          “The fact that life is temporary—the happiness, the joy, the hope, the fear, the pain, the sorrow, the victories, the defeats—is the most comforting and terrifying fact of existence.” ~ Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 13)

                          Don Miguel Ruiz Quote on Creating the Perfect Relationships—Starting With The One You Have With Yourself

                            “When you make it your goal to create the perfect relationship between you and your body, you are learning to have a perfect relationship with anyone you are with, including your mother, your friends, your lover, your children, your dog.  When you have the perfect relationship between you and your body, in that moment your half of any relationship outside you is completely fulfilled.  You no longer depend upon the success of a relationship from the outside.”

                            Don Miguel Ruiz, The Mastery of Love

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                            The most you can ever contribute to the success of a relationship is 50%.  The fact that it’s a relationship implies that there are two and 100% of one out of two is 50%.  This isn’t to say that the most effort you can ever put forth is 50%.  You can undoubtedly give your 100%, but it’s only ever going to add up to 50% as a part of the whole relationship.  This is one of the key mindsets to understand in order to maintain a healthy relationship.  Let’s take a look at an example.

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                              “All the experiences we go through in life are our lessons, all the people we meet are our teachers.  What we learn is what we earn from those experiences.  See, discover, and create the silver lining that’s always been there so you don’t discard the unpleasant moments as things you want to forget.” ~ Humble the Poet, Things No One Else Can Teach Us (Page 7)