“Whenever I go and do something with my kids (like a trip or an activity or an errand) I try to tell myself: Success is wanting to do this again. That is to say, it’s not about accomplishing anything or checking off certain boxes—did we see all the sights, did we get what we needed to get, did we arrive on time or whatever—it’s ultimately whether we got along well enough, enjoyed the experience enough, that at some point in the future they’ll say: ‘Hey, remember when we went to that concert? Can we do that again?’ or ‘Oh, you’re driving across town to grab that thing? Can I come?'”

Ryan Holiday