“I am not opposed to people thinking about death, or processing it, or questioning it—I think that’s wonderful.  What I am opposed to is this notion that you can somehow do death properly.  For me, there was no amount of preparation, no amount of thinking about death, wondering what it felt like, coming to terms with what it means, questioning the great beyond—none of that meant jack sh*t when I actually was dying.” ~ Claire Wineland, YouTube